The Christmas Cards I Didn't Send: Why Presence Matters More Than Perfection

A Photographer Mom's Honest Take on Holiday Expectations and What Really Matters

I didn't get Christmas cards done this year.

As a photographer, that feels a little ironic.

As a mom with ADHD, it comes with the familiar guilt of knowing I care deeply and still can't do everything.

This photo was taken during a quiet afternoon spent doing a puzzle with my son. No checklist. No urgency. Just time.

Something had to give this season. And this is what I chose instead.

The Pressure of Holiday Perfection

Every December, the expectations pile up. Christmas cards. Perfect photos. Matching outfits. Coordinated family portraits sent to everyone you know before the holiday arrives.

For photographers especially, there's added pressure. You create beautiful images for other families. Surely your own holiday cards should be magazine-worthy, early, and flawless.

But here's what I've learned: perfection isn't the goal. Connection is.

The ADHD Mom Reality

Living with ADHD means caring deeply about everything while struggling to execute all of it. The intentions are there. The desire to create meaningful traditions, send thoughtful cards, capture perfect moments exists fully.

But executive function doesn't always cooperate. Time blindness makes deadlines slip. Decision fatigue makes choosing photos overwhelming. And the mental load of one more task, even a meaningful one, can be too much.

This isn't about not caring. It's about capacity.

For Parents Carrying Holiday Guilt

If you're carrying guilt for the things you didn't get to this season, especially the "shoulds," I hope this reminds you that presence counts too.

You didn't send Christmas cards? You were probably doing something more important.

You didn't get the perfect family photo? The imperfect moments likely mattered more.

You simplified traditions or skipped some altogether? That's not failure. That's boundary-setting.

The Gift of Letting Go

Letting go of the Christmas cards this year was a gift to myself and my family.

It freed up mental space. It removed one source of stress. It gave me back time and energy to invest in presence instead of presentation.

And my son got more of me. More attention. More unhurried time. More afternoons where I was fully there instead of mentally managing the next task.

That feels like the better choice.

For the Naperville and Chicago Families I Photograph

If you're one of the families I photographed this season for holiday cards or Christmas portraits, I'm honored. Creating those images for you was a privilege.

Your cards are beautiful. Your photos captured something meaningful. And I hope the process felt joyful rather than stressful.

But if you're also a parent who didn't quite get to everything you intended, please know: you're not alone. And you're doing better than you think.

The photos matter. But presence matters more.

A Reminder for All of Us

If you're carrying guilt about what you didn't do this holiday season, please hear this:

Presence counts. Being there, fully there, for the people you love matters more than any card or photo or perfectly executed tradition.

The people who love you aren't keeping score. They just want you. Present. Unhurried. Fully there.

That's enough. You're enough.

Why Authentic Family Photography Matters: Creating Genuine Connections in 2026

Capturing Real Moments, Real Families, Real Love in Naperville and Chicago

I've been thinking a lot about the work I want more of next year.

And it keeps coming back to this: family sessions.

The genuine connections. The chaotic-but-somehow-perfect moments. The families who show up as themselves and trust me to capture it all.

There's something about family photography that just fills me up. Maybe it's because I'm a mom myself and I know how fast these moments go. Or maybe it's because there's no pretense in these sessions. Families can't fake their dynamics. The way siblings interact, the way parents look at their kids, the inside jokes—it's all right there.

I love the in-between moments most. When everyone thinks we're not shooting yet. When the toddler makes everyone crack up. When the teenager actually smiles without being told to. When parents steal a look at each other and you can see their whole story.

These aren't the perfectly posed, everyone-look-at-the-camera shots. Those are fine, and yes, we get them. But the real magic? It's in the mess. The movement. The moments that feel like your actual family.

At Studio 25 Naperville, we've designed everything around making these sessions feel easy. Comfortable space. Natural direction. No stress. Just families being families while I capture it.

We talk. You show up. Then we create photos that actually feel like you. Not some staged version of you. Just you.

That's what I want more of in 2026.

More families trusting me with their stories. More real moments. More sessions that feel less like work and more like joy.

If you've been thinking about family photos, let's make it happen. Your family right now—exactly as you are—deserves to be documented beautifully.

Book your 2026 family session at Studio 25 Naperville.

The Studio 25 Difference: Why Instant Photo Selection Changed Everything for Mini-Sessions

How Choosing Your Photos On-Site Eliminates Stress and Creates a Better Experience

And that's a wrap on mini-sessions for this year!

If you participated in our holiday mini-sessions this season, you experienced something different. Something that fundamentally changed how family photography sessions work. And if you're wondering what made this year's mini-sessions stand out, here's the answer: families picked their photos before they left.

Same approach we use for our headshot days. Same instant gratification. Same stress-free experience.

The Studio 25 Naperville Approach: Instant Photo Selection

This year, we completely changed that model for our mini-sessions.

Families viewed their images on the spot. Right after the session. While they were still in the moment. While the experience was fresh. While they could remember exactly how each setup felt.

You choose your favorites immediately. You know exactly what you're getting before you walk out the door. No waiting. No wondering. No anxiety.

Just instant results and zero stress.

Why Instant Selection Changes Everything

1. You Make Better Decisions

When you view your photos immediately after the session, you're making decisions based on recent memory. You remember which pose felt natural. Which smile was genuine. Which moment captured your family's real dynamic.

When you wait weeks to see photos, those memories fade. You're making decisions based on what looks okay rather than what felt right.

2. No Post-Session Anxiety

The worst part of traditional photography isn't the session itself. It's the weeks of wondering afterward.

Did we get good shots? Will I like how I look? Did the kids cooperate enough? Should I have worn something different?

With instant selection, that anxiety disappears completely. You see the photos. You love them (or we retake what you don't). You leave confident. Done.

3. Faster Turnaround

Because you've already selected your images, we can move straight to final editing and delivery. No back-and-forth about which photos you want. No delays waiting for your selections.

You get your final images faster, which means you can use them for holiday cards, gifts, or whatever you need without the usual rush and stress.

4. More Confident Choices

When you're viewing photos weeks later on a computer screen, it's easy to second-guess everything. To overthink. To wonder if you're choosing the "right" images.

When you view them immediately after the session, in person, you make more confident decisions. You trust your gut. You choose what you genuinely love.

5. Complete Transparency

There's something powerful about seeing your images right away. No surprises. No disappointments. Just immediate clarity about what you're getting.

If something didn't work, we address it on the spot. If you love everything, you walk out knowing you made a great investment.

How Studio 25 Naperville Mini-Sessions Work

Our mini-sessions are designed to be quick, efficient, and completely stress-free. Here's the process:

Before Your Session

1. Easy Online Booking
Choose your preferred date and time slot from available options. No phone calls. No back-and-forth emails. Just simple online scheduling.

2. Session Preparation Guide
You receive clear guidance on what to wear, how to prepare your kids, and what to expect. No guessing. No last-minute panic.

3. Location Confirmation
Your session takes place at our Studio 25 Naperville location, which is designed specifically for family photography. Climate-controlled, beautifully lit, and completely private.

During Your Session

1. Quick and Efficient
Mini-sessions are intentionally shorter than full sessions. We capture beautiful images without requiring hours of your time.

2. Professional Direction
You're never left wondering what to do. Clear, friendly guidance throughout ensures natural poses and genuine expressions.

3. Multiple Setups
Even in a mini-session, we create variety. Different backgrounds, different arrangements, different moments.

Immediately After Your Session

1. On-Site Image Review
This is where the magic happens. You view your images right away, on a large screen, while everything is fresh.

2. Guided Selection Process
We walk you through the images, helping you identify your favorites and make confident choices.

3. Instant Purchase Decision
You select and purchase only the images you love. No pressure. No packages you don't want. Just the photos that matter to you.

4. Walk Out Knowing What You're Getting
Before you leave Studio 25 Naperville, you know exactly which images you'll receive. Complete clarity. Zero stress.

After Your Session

1. Fast Final Editing
Since you've already made your selections, we move straight to final editing and retouching.

2. Quick Digital Delivery
Your final, edited images are delivered digitally within days, not weeks.

3. Print Options Available
If you want prints, wall art, or albums, those options are available with quick turnaround.

What Makes Studio 25 Naperville Different

The instant selection process is just one aspect of what makes Studio 25 special. Here's what sets us apart:

Purpose-Built for Photography

Studio 25 isn't a makeshift photo space. It's a professional photography studio designed specifically for creating beautiful images efficiently.

Climate-controlled environment means no weather concerns, no uncomfortable temperatures, and consistent lighting year-round.

Professional lighting setups ensure every image is properly lit and flattering, regardless of the time of day.

Multiple backdrop options give you variety without traveling to different locations.

Private, distraction-free space means kids stay focused and sessions stay on track.

Designed for Convenience

Everything about Studio 25 is built around making your experience as easy as possible:

Central Naperville location with easy parking and accessibility

Flexible scheduling including evening and weekend availability

Quick session times that respect your busy schedule

On-site selection so you're not juggling decisions weeks later

Digital delivery so you can share images immediately

Experience That Feels Personal

Even though mini-sessions are shorter and more efficient than full sessions, you're never treated like you're on an assembly line.

Every family gets personal attention. Professional direction. Genuine care about creating images you'll love.

The process is streamlined, but the experience is still warm, welcoming, and focused on you.

Contact Studio 25 Naperville

Ready to experience stress-free photography?

Whether you're interested in upcoming mini-sessions, full family portraits, professional headshots, senior photography, or branding sessions, Studio 25 Naperville makes the entire experience convenient and enjoyable.

Contact Emily Cummings Photography to book your session or learn about upcoming mini-session dates.

Documenting Life's Milestones: The Giger Family's Photography Journey

From Gender Reveal to Newborn to Christmas: Why Milestone Photography Matters

There are clients you photograph once, and then there are clients who become part of your story. The Giger family falls into the latter category, and their journey beautifully illustrates why milestone photography creates such meaningful, lasting relationships.

Three Sessions, Three Chapters

When the Gigers first reached out about their gender reveal photos, I had no idea we were beginning a relationship that would span some of their most precious family moments. That first session captured the anticipation and joy of discovering they were expecting their second child. The energy was electric, the excitement palpable.

Then came their newborn session. Watching them adjust to life as a family of four, seeing their older child meet their new sibling, capturing those first sleepy days—it was an honor to document such an intimate transition.

And now? Their first Christmas as a family of four. The chaos, the love, the holiday magic. Three sessions, three completely different moments, one beautiful family.

Why Families Return for Milestone Photography

Trust and Familiarity

When a family returns for multiple sessions, something shifts. The awkwardness of a first meeting is gone. We already know each other's rhythms. I understand how the Gigers interact, what makes them laugh, how to help them feel comfortable.

For them, there's no anxiety about working with a new photographer. They know what to expect from the experience. They trust the process. And that trust shows in every image.

Consistency in Your Family Archive

One of the most beautiful aspects of working with the same photographer for multiple milestones is the consistency it creates in your family's visual history. The Gigers' photos from gender reveal to newborn to Christmas all share a cohesive aesthetic. Years from now, when they look back through these images, there will be a thread connecting all these moments—a unified story of their family's growth.

Authentic Moments

The relationship we've built allows for more genuine, relaxed sessions. The Gigers don't show up trying to perform or pose perfectly. They show up as themselves. And that authenticity is what makes these images so powerful.

The Power of a Versatile Studio Space

One of the things I love most about our Studio 25 Naperville location is its transformative nature. The same physical space becomes something entirely different for each milestone.

Gender Reveal: Intimate and Celebratory

For the Gigers' gender reveal, we created an intimate, celebratory atmosphere. Soft lighting, anticipation in the air, focus on the emotional moment of discovery.

Newborn: Peaceful and Warm

The newborn session required a completely different energy. We transformed the studio into a cozy, peaceful environment. Soft textures, warm lighting, everything designed to keep their newborn comfortable while we captured those fleeting early days.

Christmas: Festive and Magical

And for Christmas? The studio became a winter wonderland. Twinkling lights, holiday warmth, festive details that made their first Christmas as a family of four feel special and memorable.

Same studio. Three completely different experiences. That versatility means families like the Gigers don't need to find different photographers or locations for different milestones. We can serve them through every chapter.

What Milestone Photography Really Captures

Here's what milestone photography is actually about: it's not just documenting events. It's preserving the evolution of your family.

It's capturing:

• How your older child's face lights up meeting their new sibling

• The exhausted but blissful expression of new parents in those early weeks

• The chaos and joy of your first holiday as a larger family

• The subtle ways everyone grows and changes between sessions

These aren't just pretty pictures. They're your family's story, told in moments you'll never get back.

Ready to document your family's milestones? Contact Emily Cummings Photography to begin planning your session.

Emily Cummings Photography | Studio 25 Naperville | Serving Naperville, Chicago, and surrounding areas | Specializing in milestone photography, family portraits, newborn photography, and luxury brand photography

Senior Photography Planning Guide: Why Early Booking Matters

How to Capture Your Senior Year Before Time Runs Out

Senior year goes faster than any parent is ready for.

One minute they're starting high school with backpacks too big and schedules they can't quite figure out. The next, you're staring down graduation, college applications, scholarship deadlines, and the sobering reality that they're leaving home soon.

The Senior Photo Scramble Most Parents Experience

Here's what happens to most families every single year:

Spring semester hits. Prom is around the corner. AP exams are looming. College acceptance letters are arriving (or not arriving, which brings its own stress). Your senior is juggling final projects, scholarship applications, graduation planning, senior activities, and trying to squeeze in time with friends before everyone scatters.

And somewhere in that chaos, you realize: "We still need senior photos."

So you scramble. You try to find a photographer with availability. You rush through outfit planning. The session gets squeezed between a dozen other commitments. Your senior shows up stressed and distracted. And what should be a meaningful milestone becomes just another box to check off an overwhelming list.

The photos get taken. But the moment? That gets lost.

What Most Parents Don't Realize About Senior Photo Timing

If you wait until spring to book senior photos, you're not just competing with your family's schedule. You're competing with every other senior family doing the exact same thing.

Spring semester means:

• Limited photographer availability (everyone books at once)

• Rushed sessions that feel transactional

• Weather complications (spring in the Midwest is unpredictable)

• Your senior is mentally and emotionally exhausted

• Higher stress levels for everyone involved

• Less flexibility for rescheduling if needed

But here's what changes when you plan ahead, when you book senior photos in fall or early winter:

You get:

• Your choice of dates and times (not whatever's left)

• A relaxed, unhurried session where your senior actually enjoys the experience

• Beautiful fall colors or winter light for stunning backdrops

• Time to thoughtfully plan outfits and locations

• Photos completed before the spring semester chaos begins

• The ability to use images for graduation announcements, yearbook submissions, and college applications

• A meaningful experience rather than a stressed obligation

Senior photos aren't just documentation. They're preservation. Of this age. This moment. This version of your child before they become someone new.

When you treat senior photos like the milestone they actually are, everything shifts.

Book Your Senior Session Now

If you have a senior at home, don't wait until spring chaos to figure out senior photos.

Plan ahead. Treat this like the milestone it is. Create something meaningful.

Whether you want urban Chicago backdrops, natural outdoor settings, or studio portraits at our Studio 25 Naperville location, we can create senior photos that authentically capture who your child is right now.

Your senior year is already moving too fast. Let's make sure you capture it beautifully.

Contact me to discuss your senior photography session and available dates.

Why Studio 25 Naperville Might Be the Best Decision You Make for Your Next Session

When you imagine your next family, newborn, or kids' session, what comes to mind?

Probably not scrambling in the car with a half-dressed toddler, checking the weather forecast again, or rescheduling (for the third time) because the forecast lied. Again.

Enter: Studio 25 Naperville.
The session solution you didn’t know you needed… but now you’ll never go back.

The Studio Isn't Just a Backdrop — It’s a Strategy

Studio 25 Naperville was designed with one goal in mind: make your photo session feel effortless. Whether you're planning a cozy newborn shoot, a playful toddler session, or updating your family portraits (finally!), the studio gives you the space to breathe and the freedom to focus on what really matters: each other.

Here’s what you get the moment you walk through the door:

• Controlled light – No harsh sun, no gloomy clouds. Just clean, flattering, editorial-worthy light every single time.

• No reschedules – Rain? Snow? Wind? Doesn't matter. You’re covered. Literally.

• Zero distractions – No soccer games in the background. No public park chaos. Just quiet, calm, and connection.

You walk in, everything’s ready.
You walk out with timeless images that actually feel like you.

Just Steps from Downtown Naperville + The Riverwalk

Yes, you read that right. Want variety in your gallery?
Studio 25 Naperville is nestled right in the heart of Downtown Naperville. We’re talking just a short walk to the charmingly iconicRiverwalk, local boutiques, cozy cafés, and those picture-perfect ivy walls and brick backdrops that make this area such a favorite.

Many families choose to start in the studio for those relaxed, indoor shots, then step outside for a few more casual, candid frames around town. No need to choose — you can do both.

Designed for Simplicity, Styled for Luxury

We’ve all done the chaotic photo session before.
Wrangling kids. Worrying about stains. Fighting humidity and wind and naps gone wrong.

The studio takes all of that… off your plate.

• Diaper bag exploded? We’ve got wipes and extras.

• Baby needs a feeding break? There’s a comfy spot just for that.

• Need outfit changes? We've got space, time, and a mirror.

Whether you're a first-time parent or a seasoned pro, walking into the studio is like exhaling. There’s space to relax, connect, and just be. That’s where the magic happens.

Why This Family Chose the Studio (After 9 Years of Working With Me)

After nearly a decade of sessions together — parks, backyards, even their own home — this family chose Studio 25 Naperville for their latest shoot.

Not because it was trendy.

But because it was simple.
Focused.
Intentional.

They wanted a calm experience — and images that felt elevated, authentic, and beautifully them.

Studio Sessions Are Open — Book Yours

Whether you're craving calm in the chaos of life, planning ahead for winter, or just want a session where you actually get to be in the photos…the studio is here.

No reschedules. No pressure. Just stunning, soul-filled imagery.

Your seat’s waiting. Let’s make something beautiful together.

When the Story Changes (And Becomes Even More Beautiful)

Miranda originally booked her maternity session as part of The Luminous Project. We had planned everything, the styling, the wardrobe, the soft light, to celebrate her final weeks of pregnancy in a truly elevated, editorial way.

But life had its own timeline.

When her sweet little one decided to arrive early, we adjusted. The maternity session became something new: a newborn and family shoot that captured not only the softness of new life, but the deep, quiet connection of a family welcoming their baby home.

And honestly?

It turned out even better than what we originally planned.

Let Go of “Perfect Timing”

As a photographer, I’ve learned that the most meaningful work often comes from the unplanned, the imperfect, the moments in-between.

So many of my clients delay booking because they’re waiting for a perfect time — when the house is clean, the toddler is in a good mood, the baby weight is gone, or life feels a little less messy.

But here’s what I want you to hear:

These are the days you’ll want to remember.
The ones where time feels blurry.
Where your arms are full and your hair might not be perfect.
Where love is loud and quiet all at once.

That’s the magic I want to preserve for you.

From Luminous to Life

Miranda’s session was a beautiful reminder that pivoting isn’t failure.
It’s flexibility.
It’s grace.
It’s choosing presence over perfection.

And her final gallery? Full of warmth, connection, and that unmistakable newborn glow — a story worth telling, even if it wasn’t the one we first imagined.

Your Turn

If you’ve been telling yourself things like:

• “It’s too chaotic right now.”

• “I just don’t feel photo-ready.”

• “We’ll do it next year.”

Pause.

Take a breath.
And remember…this chapter won’t last forever. But the images we create will.

So how about it? Reach out here to get started.

Family Photography in Naperville: A Mother’s Day Special That Became a Cherished Session

Some gifts fade quickly, but family photographs only grow more valuable with time.

Last May, a thoughtful husband purchased one of my Mother’s Day photography certificates for his wife. The certificate wasn’t tied to a date or type of shoot, which meant she could book a session when the timing felt right. Months later, she redeemed it for a family photoshoot with her daughters, and it turned into one of the sweetest sessions I’ve photographed.

Family Photography Captures More Than Smiles

Family photography is not about stiff poses or forced smiles. It is about documenting connection, laughter, and love in a way that feels authentic.

During this session, her daughters weren’t just standing in front of a camera, they were playing, hugging, and enjoying time with their mom. Because she was able to choose the perfect timing, the session felt relaxed, natural, and full of joy. The result? Images she and her daughters will treasure for years.

Why Families Love Flexible Photography Specials

Many families in Naperville, Chicago, and the western suburbs enjoy purchasing seasonal photography specials because they offer:

• Flexibility: Buy during the promotion, then book the session later when life feels less hectic.

• Choice: Use the certificate for the type of shoot you want: family, children, couple, or portraits.

• Lasting value: Instead of a gift that fades, you create memories that last forever.

Family Photos That Last a Lifetime

This Mother’s Day certificate became much more than a gift, it became a chance to pause life, celebrate family, and create photographs that will be cherished for generations.

Whether you are in Naperville, Chicago, or the western suburbs, I specialize in family photography that feels real, modern, and timeless.

Ready to create your own family session? Contact me today to learn more about upcoming photography specials and availability.

You Don’t Have to Do It All Before You Deserve Photos

Your baby won’t remember how tired you felt.

But they’ll have the photos to see how deeply they were loved.

After my daughter was born, I didn’t know what day of the week it was. I couldn’t remember if I had washed my hair. I sat on the couch and worked my way through every Sex and the City DVD (this was before Netflix). By late nights, I was an expert in King of Queens reruns.

Meanwhile, my husband had started graduate school the very day she was born. He was part-time teaching AP English at a not so local high school, and we were burning the candle at both ends.

Then, one afternoon, I watched Nate Berkus. A photographer came on and said you “had to” have your newborn photos taken within the first two weeks. My baby was already two months old. Well, shit..... I was already two months in. Instantly, I felt like I had failed as a mom.

And that feeling stuck with me.

Why I Built My Studio Differently

I don’t ever want another mom to feel that way. Whether your baby is two days old, two months old, or even two years old, you deserve photos that celebrate this season of life.

That is why my Naperville studio, serving families across Chicago and the western suburbs, is designed to take the pressure off.

- You do not need to clean your house. The studio is ready for you.
- Professional hair and makeup are included, so you can walk in frazzled and walk out feeling incredible.
- Weather is never an issue. Our light is always perfect.
- Albums and wall art are handled for you. Instead of leaving with another digital folder, you leave with finished art.

Fifteen Years, Thousands of Families

For fifteen years I have worked with families who often freeze when they don’t know where to start. That is exactly why I have created a process where you don’t have to. I take it off your plate so you can focus on what matters most: being present with your family.

Your children will not care if you showed up two weeks or two years “late.” They will care that you showed up at all. And years from now, you will be so glad you did.

Ready to check this off your list?

Let’s create gorgeous portraits together, portraits that live on your walls and in your albums instead of hiding in your camera roll.

Studio located in downtown Naperville - but happy to travel to you as well!
Serving Chicago and the western suburbs.

Finding Myself Through My Son: A Mother's ADHD Discovery Story

Sometimes our children become our greatest teachers. While navigating my son's ADHD diagnosis, I discovered something unexpected - my own story of neurodivergence.

The Early Signs: I was that chatty kid, the one whose name lived perpetually on the classroom blackboard (remember those days?). My parents even warned my husband before our wedding about my "Rubber-band Man" energy - how I would stretch him with my constant ideas and activities. We all just thought it was personality.

The Motherhood Wake-up Call: It wasn't until I became a mother that I started questioning my own patterns. The inability to fully relax, the constant mental activity, the perpetual hum of anxiety - were these just part of being a busy mom, or something more?

The Discovery Through My Child: When my son was diagnosed with ADHD, I dove into research mode, determined to understand how to support him. That's when I learned about the genetic connection between parents and children with ADHD. Everything started clicking into place.

The Diagnosis Process: I'll be honest - getting evaluated as an adult woman (even with good insurance) wasn't as straightforward as I expected. My internist wanted me to go for a full neuro-psych evaluation - that would take 1-2 days of testing and thousands of dollars out-of-pocket! After several attempts to find the right professional, I finally connected with a specialist who understands adult ADHD, particularly how it presents in women. Last week, I received my diagnosis: combination ADHD.

Understanding Combination ADHD: For those unfamiliar, combination ADHD means experiencing both inattentive and hyperactive-impulsive symptoms. Suddenly, so many aspects of my life made sense - from my creative bursts to my challenge with traditional organizational systems.

Making Peace with My Mind: This will definitely be a continuous process but this diagnosis isn't just a label - it's a key to understanding myself better. Those traits that sometimes make me feel "too much"? They're not flaws to fix, but aspects of my neurodivergent brain to understand and work with.

Moving Forward: While this journey is still new, I'm learning to embrace all parts of myself. I will work on developing strategies that work with my brain rather than against it. Most importantly, I'm sharing this story because I know there are other women out there - especially moms and entrepreneurs - who might see themselves in these words.

A Message to Others: If you're a woman who's ever felt like your brain works differently, who's been called "too much," or who's wondering why traditional systems don't always seem to work for you - you're not alone. Whether you have ADHD or not, your journey to understanding yourself is valid and valuable.

I'm sharing this not because I have all the answers, but because I believe in the power of these honest conversations. Sometimes the path to loving ourselves starts with understanding ourselves - all parts of ourselves.

What to Expect: Your Family Photography Experience in Chicago, Naperville & Chicago Suburbs

Planning a family photo session? Whether you're capturing baby's first moments or updating your annual family portraits, here's your complete guide to our professional photography experience with Ten Little Bluebirds.

Starting Your Family Photography Journey

Every successful family photo session begins with a clear vision. During our initial consultation at our downtown Naperville studio or the comfort of your home, we'll discuss:

• Your ideal location (from Naperville's Riverwalk to local forest preserves)

• The perfect timing for your family's schedule

• Specific milestone moments you want to capture

• Session fees and investment details for your Naperville family photos

As a Naperville family photographer specializing in newborn and baby photography, I understand the importance of timing and comfort for our littlest clients.

Planning Your Perfect Photo Session

After booking your session date, our detailed planning process ensures a stress-free experience for your family photos:

Your Personal Planning Call

We'll customize every detail of your family photo session:

• Best times for natural light in Naperville and Chicago locations

• Backup plans for Chicago's unpredictable weather

• Age-appropriate timing for baby and child photos

• Coordinating multiple family members' schedules

• We hire hair and makeup for moms with when you book a Premier Photo Session with our studio

Comprehensive Family Photo Planning

We guide you every step of the way and help you and your family look your best:

• Naperville location suggestions perfect for family photos

• Seasonal outfit recommendations for Chicago weather

• Tips for preparing children for photos

• Professional Styling Support

• Coordination tips for large family groups

Your Photo Session: Creating Natural Family Moments

With over 14 years of experience photographing families in Naperville, Chicago and the Chicago suburbs, I know how to:

• Keep sessions relaxed and enjoyable

• Guide natural poses for all age groups

• Handle toddler energy levels

• Capture genuine smiles and interactions

• Work with Chicagoland's varying weather conditions (plus we have our very own studio with gorgeous light!)

After Your Chicago Suburban Family Session

Each image receives careful attention to ensure:

• Consistent artistry across your entire gallery

• Natural retouching that enhances your best features

• Magazine-worthy polish while keeping you looking like yourself

• Expert posing and editing techniques that create the most flattering angles

Your Family Photo Reveal

Whether at our Naperville studio or on a Google Meet:

• View your carefully curated gallery

• Select your favorite images

• Plan your wall art displays

• Choose album layouts

From Digital to Display

Transform your Naperville family photos into artwork:

• Custom wall galleries for your home

• Professional printing services

• Heirloom album design

• Archival quality products

Popular Photo Session Types

• Maternity photography in our downtown Naperville Studio

• Newborn photography in our downtown Naperville studio or in your home

• Baby milestone sessions (3, 6, 9, 12 months)

• Fall family photos

• Extended family sessions

• First birthday celebrations

• Studio Mini Session Experiences

Best Locations for Family Photos Near Naperville

• Naperville Riverwalk

• Knoch Knolls Nature Center

• Centennial Beach area

• Downtown Naperville

• Local forest preserves

• Cantigny Park

• Morton Arboretum

Ready to book your family photo session? Contact our studio today to begin planning your perfect family photos. Serving Chicago, Naperville, Aurora, Wheaton, Glen Ellyn, Hinsdale, and the greater Chicago suburban area.

The Gift of Time: Why Family Photos Are More Than Just Pictures

These sessions are your permission slip to pause.

To explore somewhere new. To watch your children's faces light up with wonder. To simply be together.

And the magic doesn't end with the session. Every time you walk past that framed photo in your hallway, every time you flip through that album on your coffee table, you're transported back to that moment. You feel the joy, the freedom, the connection all over again.

Because that's what family photography should be about – not just preserving how you look, but capturing how you feel.

Ready to create your own magical moments? Let's chat about a session that gives your family the gift of time together.

When was the last time you hit pause on life?

Really paused – not just the quick breathers between emails and errands, but a true, intentional pause to be present with your children?

As a mom and photographer, I understand the daily juggle. Work deadlines, household management, endless to-do lists – they all compete for our attention. Sometimes, in the whirlwind of running a household, we forget to simply be with our kids, to watch them run free, to hear their laughter echo across open fields.

This is why I approach family photography differently. It's not just about capturing images; it's about creating a space where families can step away from the chaos of daily life. A time where phones are put away (except mine, of course!), where to-do lists are forgotten, and where the only thing that matters is being present with each other.

When I look at this image of two sisters running through the fields, I see more than just a beautiful photograph. I see a moment where time stood still. Where homework and schedules and responsibilities didn't exist. Just pure, unbridled joy.

Capturing Chicago Memories: A Family's Journey from Old Home to New

In the heart of Chicago, where skylines meet neighborhoods, families build their lives one moment at a time. Recently, I had the privilege of documenting a particularly beautiful chapter for a family I've worked with for many years. As they prepared to move from the home where they first became a family of three to a new adventure just down the street, they invited me to capture the essence of their life in images.

Four years ago, this couple brought their newborn son home to a cozy Chicago residence. Now, as their little one grows and their family evolves, they're embarking on a new journey. But before they turned the page, they wanted to capture the everyday moments that made their house a home.

Our photo session was a beautiful tapestry of daily life and beautiful routines:

1. Morning Cuddles: We captured the warmth of their morning ritual – snuggling on the couch, reading "The Kissing Hand." It's these quiet moments that often hold the most meaning.

2. Porch Swing Memories: The family's porch swing, a silent witness to countless conversations and lazy Sunday afternoons, played a starring role in our shoot.

3. Musical Moments: In his bedroom, their son showed off his budding musical talents. These walls have heard first lullabies and now, perhaps, the beginnings of a future rockstar.

4. Farewell Waves: We even recreated the daily scene of their son waving goodbye to Dad as he leaves for work – a simple act filled with so much love.

But the story didn't end there. In a cool twist, we were able to walk down the street to their new home, bridging the gap between past and future. It was a powerful reminder that while addresses may change, family bonds remain constant.

As a Chicago family photographer, sessions like these remind me of the profound impact of my work. It's not just about taking pictures; it's about preserving chapters of life, creating tangible memories that families can revisit for generations to come.

Here's what the family had to say about their experience:

I don't know how she does it, but Emily always makes our family look AMAZING. Feel awkward taking pictures? Kid feeling uncooperative and chaotic during the shoot? Emily somehow transcends those challenges and returns gorgeous photographs to us every time. I am so grateful for the way she has captured our family on four different occasions in the last four years, from a destination maternity shoot in Michigan, to newborn photos, to a session that tells the story of our life in the house we are about to move out of. Couldn't recommend her more!

- Sara D.

To all Chicago families, especially those in transition: consider documenting your journey. Whether you're welcoming a new baby, moving to a new home, or simply celebrating the beauty of your everyday life, these images become treasures. They're not just photographs; they're time capsules of love, growth, and the unbreakable bonds of family.

If you're in the Chicago area and would like to capture your family's unique story, I'd be honored to help. Let's create beautiful memories together, one click at a time.

6 Slightly Biased (but Totally True) Reasons to Book Your Fall Family Photos with Me

4. Stress-Free Zone (I Promise) Remember that time you tried to get everyone dressed and smiling for a photo, and it felt like herding cats? Yeah, not happening here. I've got a master's degree in keeping photo sessions calm and fun. Plus, hair and makeup services for mom mean you get to feel pampered instead of frazzled.

5. Photos So Good, Your Holiday Cards Will Make the Fridge Hall of Fame. Aunt Susan's photos of her cat in a pumpkin costume? Cute. Your family, bathed in golden hour light, looking like you just stepped out of a fall fashion magazine? Unbeatable. Your cards are going straight to the center of everyone's fridge, guaranteed.

6. I've Got a Secret Weapon: A Studio That's Rain-Proof and Nap-Friendly While Mother Nature is great and all, sometimes she doesn't get the memo about your photo session. That's where my ace in the hole comes in - my very own studio! Rain? No problem. Nap time conflicts with golden hour? I've got you covered. My studio is a beautiful, simple, and timeless backdrop that's perfect for any season. It's like having a Plan A and a Plan A+. Plus, it's temperature-controlled, so no one's makeup is melting or teeth are chattering. It's so comfy, your kids might actually ask to stay longer (no promises, but it's happened before!).

Hey there! Emily here, your friendly neighborhood photographer with a slight obsession for fall colors and capturing families before those little birds fly away. You're probably thinking, "Do I really need another article telling me why fall photos are great?" Nope! Instead, let me give you 5 reasons why booking your fall family photos with me is the best decision you'll make this season (besides finally trying that pumpkin spice thing everyone's talking about).

1. I Speak Fluent "Toddler-ese" and "Teen-ish" Got a little one who thinks "cheese" means running in the opposite direction of the camera? No worries! I'm fluent in toddler-ese, preschool-ish, and even teen-ish. I can convince your teenager that family photos are actually "bussin'" (that's good, for us non-Gen Z folks). I might even throw in a "skibidi toilet" or two to get them to crack a smile. Trust me, I'll have your kids of all ages laughing and posing before they can say "no cap" (that means "for real," apparently).

2. My Secret Weapon: Dad Jokes Dads, I've got your back. I am not a Dad but I grew up with Dad that was never short on Dad Jokes and have a husband that keeps them coming so my arsenal of dad jokes is unmatched. Why did the scarecrow win an award? He was outstanding in his field! See?

3. I'm Basically a Naperville Leaf Whisperer I know all the great secret spots where the leaves are peak pretty. I've been known to stake out trees and befriend local squirrels to get the inside scoop on fall foliage. It’s coming later this year! Your backdrop will be so gorgeous, you might forget to look at the camera (don't worry, I'll remind you).

So there you have it! Six reasons why booking your fall family photos with me is the way to go. But let's be real - the most important reason is that these moments fly by faster than you can say "pumpkin spice latte." Let's capture them together, with a lot of laughter and maybe just a few dad jokes.

Ready to create some fall magic? Let's chat! Book your session now before all the good leaves are gone (and my dad jokes get worse).

P.S. If you book now, I'll throw in a free tutorial on how to make the perfect leaf pile for jumping. It's a skill that'll last a lifetime!

A Photographer's Home Update: How Wallpaper Inspired a Family Photoshoot

Creating Timeless Memories at Home

The results of our impromptu family session were beautiful. The wallpaper provided a bold, yet elegant and timeless backdrop that complemented Maggie and Hazel beautifully. It's amazing how a simple home update can lead to such inspiration and beautiful, lasting memories.Why Consider a Statement Wall in Your Home?

While this wallpaper won't be a regular backdrop for client shoots, it's inspired me to think about how personal spaces can be transformed for photography. Here's why you might consider a statement wall in your own home:

1. Everyday Backdrop: Turn daily moments into photo opportunities.

2. Personalized Touch: Reflect your style in your family photos.

3. Versatility: Works for various types of casual shoots - from baby milestones to family gatherings.

4. Unique Memories: Create one-of-a-kind images in the comfort of your home.

As a Naperville family and baby photographer, I'm always drawn to beautiful backdrops - even in my own home! I'm excited to share a recent update to my living room that unexpectedly turned into a stunning photoshoot opportunity.

An Anthropologie Find Transforms My Living Room

While browsing Anthropologie (a dangerous pastime for my wallet!), I stumbled upon a wallpaper that instantly caught my eye. The pattern was so captivating that I knew it would be perfect for my living room. Little did I know, it would soon become the star of an impromptu family photoshoot (along with my adorable niece and sister)!

Family Visit Leads to Photographic Magic

As luck would have it, my sister Maggie visited from Los Angeles with her adorable little girl, Hazel, soon after I installed the wallpaper. As a photographer, I couldn't resist the opportunity to capture some precious moments against this new backdrop. And Maggie couldn’t resist updated pictures of Hazel who is growing up so quickly!

Bringing Interior Design and Photography Together

As a photographer, I'm always looking at how interior design elements can enhance images. This experience has reminded me of the beauty that can be found in personal spaces. It's about creating art that captures your family's personality in a setting that's uniquely yours.

Inspiration for Your Own Home Photography

Do you have a fun wallpaper or statement wall in your home? I'd love to hear about it! Share in the comments how you've incorporated unique design elements into your space.

Remember, while I typically shoot on-location or in my studio for client sessions, this experience has reinforced my belief in the power of personalized spaces for creating meaningful photographs.

Don't forget - these precious moments with your loved ones fly by so quickly. Whether it's in a professional setting or in the comfort of your own home, let's make sure to capture them before they fly away!

The Beauty of Simplicity: Babies in the Studio

In a world full of noise and constant stimulation, there's something truly magical about simplicity. Don’t you think?

The Power of our All-White Studio

Our all-white studio proved to be the perfect backdrop for this session. It's amazing how a clean, minimalist setting can create such impactful images. The white space does more than just provide a backdrop; it allows the true star of the show and shine without distraction.

Focus on What Matters

In these photos, there's nothing to pull your eye away from what's truly important: the baby's personality, expressions, and those tiny details we all love. The soft skin, the little fingers and toes, the innocent eyes – all captured in stunning clarity against the pure white background.

Timeless and Modern

The simplicity of the white studio lends itself to a look that's both timeless and modern. These aren't photos that will feel dated in a few years. Instead, they have a classic, minimalist appeal that will stand the test of time.

The Fleeting Nature of Babyhood

As any parent knows, babies grow and change at an astonishing rate. These early months are precious and fleeting. Our simplified approach to baby photography allows us to capture these moments in their purest form, creating keepsakes that families will treasure for generations.

The Details Make the Difference

Sometimes, it's the smallest details that make the biggest impact. The soft folds of a white diaper, the gentle curve of a tiny ear, the wispy hair – all these elements stand out beautifully against our white backdrop.

Remember, time moves quickly. Don't wait to capture your little one's precious moments. Contact us today to schedule your own timeless baby photo session.

Capturing Timeless Moments: A Premier Family Session in Chicago's Gold Coast

We recently had the pleasure of photographing one of our favorite clients, the Murer family, during a special family event in Chicago. This Premier Session showcased the beauty of the city and the warmth of family bonds, all while preparing them for a wedding celebration at the iconic Drake Hotel.

The Premier Session Experience

Our Premier Sessions are designed to provide a luxurious and comprehensive photography experience. For the Murer family, this included:

1. Professional Hair and Makeup: We arranged for our expert stylists to visit the family's home, ensuring they looked picture-perfect for both our shoot and the upcoming wedding.

2. Exclusive Chicago Locations: We explored some of the most picturesque spots in the Gold Coast, capturing the family against the backdrop of this historic neighborhood.

3. Personalized Attention: As with all our Premier Sessions, we focused on creating a relaxed and enjoyable experience, allowing the family's natural dynamics to shine through.

A Journey Through Time

What makes this session particularly special is the history we share with the Murer family. It's been our privilege to document their milestones over the years:

• From E's first shoot with her beloved American Girl doll

• To now, as she approaches her senior year

Watching E grow up in front of my camera has been a true joy, and it's moments like these that remind me why I love what I do.

The Gold Coast: A Perfect Setting

Chicago's Gold Coast neighborhood provided a stunning backdrop for our session:

• Elegant Architecture: The area's historic mansions and tree-lined streets offered a sophisticated ambiance.

• Urban Charm: We captured the unique blend of city energy and neighborhood character.

• Versatile Backdrops: From parks to cityscapes, the Gold Coast gave us a variety of settings to work with.

Why Choose a Premier Session?

Our Premier Sessions are ideal for special occasions like the Murer family's wedding day preparation. They offer:

• Stress-free preparation with on-location hair and makeup

• Extended shooting time to capture a variety of looks and locations

• A mix of posed and candid shots to tell your family's unique story

Book Your Premier Session Today

Whether you're preparing for a special event or simply want to capture your family in a unique way, our Premier Sessions offer an unparalleled photography experience. Contact us today to learn more about how we can create timeless memories for your family in Chicago or beyond.

The Magic of Studio Newborn Sessions: A Fresh Perspective on Family Photography in Naperville

While we often photograph newborns in the comfort of their homes, there's something truly special about bringing families into our studio space for these precious sessions. Today, we're excited to share the benefits of studio newborn photography and why it might be the perfect choice for your family.

The Studio Advantage

1. Stress-Free Environment: New moms, breathe easy! No need to worry about tidying up your home. Our studio is always clean, organized, and ready for your session.

2. Neutral and Beautiful Backdrop: Our carefully designed space allows the focus to remain where it should be - on the connections within your family.

3. Consistent, Perfect Lighting: We know our studio light like the back of our hand, ensuring efficient sessions with consistently beautiful results.

4. Personalized Touches: Your story still shines through. We encourage you to bring special swaddles, toys, or keepsakes that are meaningful to your family.

5. Pampering for New Moms: We offer hair and makeup services, either at your home or in our studio, helping you feel refreshed and camera-ready.

6. Efficiency is Key: Especially crucial when toddlers are involved, our controlled studio environment allows for quick, smooth sessions.

A Client's Perspective

Don't just take our word for it. Here's what Brittany, a recent studio newborn session client, had to say:

"I don't truly have the words for how incredible our experience was with Emily! From the moment we reached out to her for our newborn/family photos, she made us feel so comfortable and like we've known each other for years! She is such a sweet, empathetic, passionate and beautiful soul and has incredible talent for capturing authentic moments and emotions. Our family feels truly blessed to have chosen her to capture this time in our lives, welcoming our new baby boy into our family. They are photos and moments we will treasure forever. The photoshoot at the studio felt so comfortable and was such a blast! The studio is GORGEOUS and such a great backdrop to our photos. Emily was even incredible with my 3 year old toddler! All the details, calls, meetings and photos were absolutely beyond our expectations. We can't wait to work with Emily (and Jordan - she's incredible too!) again in the future. Couldn't recommend her enough!!"

Your Session, Your Choice

Whether you choose an in-home or studio session, our goal remains the same - to capture the love, joy, and unique bond of your growing family. We're here to make the process as smooth and enjoyable as possible, creating timeless images you'll treasure for years to come.

Ready to book your newborn session or have questions about which option is right for you? Reach out today - we can't wait to meet your little one!

Tips for Taking Back to School Pictures!

It's hard to believe the school year is already here, and it's already time to think about those back-to-school photos! Even for photographers, it's a LOT to think about and prepare for, but I thought it might be fun to compile some tips to help you capture the perfect shots of your little ones (or not-so-little ones) as they embark on a new academic adventure:

1. Plan Ahead. Choose outfits the night before to avoid the morning rush, and prepare props like chalk boards, letter boards, favorite books, and backpacks for those “first day of school” snaps.
 

2. Timing is Everything. Take photos in the morning when kids are fresh and excited, and allow extra time to avoid stressed-out shots.
 

3. Location, Location, Location. Take your photos by your front door or porch for a classic look, or outside the school building/in the classroom to document the memories there. Remember to find a spot with good natural light. I like to look for shade so that I don't have shadows falling on my kiddos faces.
 

4. Capture the Details. Take close-ups of new shoes, backpacks, or lunch boxes, school supplies, and don't forget to photograph any hand-made items or accessories.
 

5. Mix it Up. Take both posed and candid shots, include siblings or pets, and capture the in-between moments like tying shoes or packing backpacks. Don't be afraid to let your child strike a silly pose or two!

6. Document Growth. Take photos in the same spot each year to show how much your kids have changed over time, and consider creating a photo book or gallery wall with yearly photos. Try taking a photo of their handprint at the start of each year, or recording a quick video sharing their goals for the year.

7. The After-School Follow- Up. Take an “after” photo when they arrive home to capture their return. Ask them to hold up any art or activities they brought home, and capture the excitement with bubble machines or confetti to celebrate their completion of day-one.

Remember, the most important thing is to have fun and capture your child's personality. These photos will become treasured memories for years to come!

Want to take it a step further? Consider booking a simple session with us! We're offering special packages to capture these milestone moments in style.

Happy photographing!

My Journey into Full-Time Photography and Entrepreneurship

Four years ago, COVID-19 became the unexpected catalyst for a life-changing decision. Like many others, the pandemic forced us to reevaluate our priorities and lifestyle. Up until then, I had been juggling a full-time tech job at a school with a part-time photography business that consumed my evenings and weekends. The pace was relentless, and I found myself missing precious time with my family.

When the world slowed down, we saw an opportunity for change. With a mix of excitement and trepidation, my family and I packed our bags and moved to the suburbs of Naperville. But this wasn't just a change of scenery—it was the beginning of a whole new chapter in my professional life. I decided to take a leap of faith, leaving behind the security of my full-time job to pour all my energy into my true passion: photography.

This move wasn't just about changing careers; it was about changing our lives. It was a chance to build a business that not only fulfilled me professionally but also allowed me to be present for the moments that matter most with my family.

The Rocky Road to Success

Has it been easy? Not by a long shot. There are still nights when I wake up in a panic, my mind racing with all the responsibilities and challenges that come with running your own business. But I've noticed something encouraging: those moments of doubt are becoming fewer and farther between. With each passing day, I'm learning more about what it takes to build and maintain a sustainable business.

I didn't step into this world with an MBA tucked under my arm. I didn't major in Business or Communications in college. I don't come from a family of entrepreneurs who could show me the ropes. What I did have was a passion for photography that took hold 15 years ago and refused to let go.

The Power of Passion and Persistence

With the help of the internet and a determination to learn and grow, I've managed to turn that passion into a thriving business. Sure, I stumble sometimes. But each mistake is a lesson, each setback an opportunity to refine my approach. I pick myself up, dust myself off, and keep moving forward.

My parents used to shake their heads at my constant stream of ideas. I drove them nuts with all the possibilities I'd envision. Little did we know that this very trait—this ability to see potential and opportunities where others might not—would serve me so well in my role as an entrepreneur.

Expanding Horizons

A year into our move, we took another big step: adding a studio space and starting a new business. It was a risk, but one that has paid off in ways I couldn't have imagined.

The Joys of Entrepreneurship

What do I love most about this path I've chosen? It's not just about the flexibility or freedom, though those are certainly perks. The true joy lies in the constant state of growth and connection I find myself in every day.

1. Endless Learning: Every day brings new challenges and opportunities to learn. Whether it's mastering a new photography technique, navigating the intricacies of business management, or exploring innovative marketing strategies, I'm in a constant state of growth. This perpetual student mindset keeps me energized and excited about my work.

2. Amazing Connections: One of the most rewarding aspects of my journey has been the incredible people I've met along the way. From clients who trust me to capture their most precious moments, to fellow entrepreneurs who inspire me with their creativity and drive, to mentors who generously share their wisdom – each interaction enriches my life and my work.

3. Creative Freedom: As an entrepreneur, I have the freedom to pursue projects that truly excite me. I can experiment with new ideas, collaborate with other creatives, and push the boundaries of my art without needing approval from higher-ups.

4. Impactful Work: There's something profoundly satisfying about knowing that my work directly impacts people's lives. Whether I'm capturing a family's love, a newborn's first days, or the story behind a new business, I'm creating tangible memories.

This path keeps me on my toes, constantly evolving, and deeply connected to a community of amazing individuals. It's challenging, yes, but it's also incredibly rewarding. Every day, I'm reminded of why I took this leap, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to grow, learn, and create in ways I never could have imagined in my previous career.

A Lesson for the Next Generation

This path isn't for everyone, and that's okay. But I'm proud of myself for taking the plunge. More than that, I'm grateful for the example I'm setting for my daughter and son. I'm showing them what it means to be a strong woman and mom—someone who pursues her passions, faces challenges head-on, and still makes time for the people and things that matter most.

Looking Ahead

As I reflect on these past four years, I'm filled with gratitude and excitement for what's to come. Yes, there have been challenges, but the rewards—both personal and professional—have been immeasurable.

To anyone out there standing on the edge of their own leap of faith, I say: go for it! Chase your dreams. Embrace the journey. Learn from your mistakes and celebrate your successes, no matter how small.

Here's to the next four years and beyond. May they be filled with growth, learning, and the joy that comes from doing what you love.

P.S. A big thank you to Hector from Flytographer for the gorgeous images from our adventure in London.